boost self-confidence

Due to my father's strictness, which often frightened me, and the almost sadistic disciplinary methods of a primary school teacher, I became an anxious and emotionally unstable boy. There were frequent beatings and punishments. My self-confidence suffered greatly. I had very little self-esteem and believed that others could do everything better. As a result, I often became the victim of bullying, physical fights, and sexual exploitation. I also had to endure mockery and ridicule. I was unable to resolve conflicts through conversation, and confrontations often escalated into severe violence.

There is no such thing as perfect parenting to raise the perfect child. However, there are some rules and suggestions that can help you support your child in building self-esteem and self-confidence.

Avoid using an authoritarian parenting style.

• Schlagen Sie niemals Ihre Kinder.
• Never hit your children.
• Physical punishment leads to aggression and personality disorders.
• It creates anxious, insecure, and emotionally unstable children.
• Children who are raised without love and are frequently criticized quickly develop the feeling that they are not okay and of little worth.
• Indifference, lack of understanding, as well as anger and violence, can lead to serious consequences during adolescence.

Avoid an overprotective parenting style.

• It prevents the child from developing future independence or learning how to handle difficult situations.
• Such children often remain stuck at early developmental stages.

Encourage a healthy parenting style

• Give children trust, love, and a sense of security.
• Make time for your child, show interest and enthusiasm.
• Listen and engage in conversations.
• Take children seriously.
• Help them develop self-confidence and a strong sense of self.
• Support, praise, and encourage your child.
• Show appreciation, respect, and recognition.
• Allow your child to make mistakes without punishment.Teach your child how to deal with problems and discomfort.
• IMPORTANT!!! Children must learn from an early age how to handle their own emotions and talk about them.

Children need loving parents who are patient, trustworthy, and consistent. They need clear guidance and clear rules. These rules must be age-appropriate and should be explained in a way the child can understand. When children feel that their parents truly love them, they will be able to share a wonderful time together — just like I now get to experience with my adult children.